Earlier today, I was trying to figure out why the school thing is bothering me so much this week. 
I think it was triggered by receiving M’s preschool class photo.  I couldn’t help but figure out the ratio of white kids vs. kids of color.  It was 11:14  (13 of them Asian or hapa).  In other parts of the country, it wouldn’t […]

I have been thinking a lot about this post. 
It looks like (fingers crossed, knock on wood) we are not moving and we are going to stay here for the forseeable future.  And with that, I know that both Mr. A and I are unwilling to move to another neighborhood in search of more diversity for the […]

I wrote a short post this morning, but it appears the computer ate it.  Bah.
 

I am so over the whole will we or won’t we move bullshit. 
As of right now, I am hopeful that Mr. A is not going to take that interview.  I am even more hopeful he will end this torture and withdraw his applications SOON.  But negotiations are ongoing.   I am going to ban myself from […]

This afternoon, Mr. A got a call about another interview.
This job is much more important and prestigous than the one in Chicago.  And strangely, I think he has a much better chance of actually getting this job. 
 It is rare that we are at such a pivotal moment in our lives and actually aware of it […]